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Bottoms on Top [NSFW]
“Winter Fire is like annnnnnny other conference!” I announced. “Really? Are there name tags and speakers and breakout sessions?” Bambi* said. “Is there a really awkward kinky banquet?” “Seriously, it’s...
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Got Consent? I: Saying Yes to Kink
[Content Note: Throughout this series, I’ll be talking about rape and rape culture. This introductory post will discuss these topics in much less detail, though.] “You’re going to write for a feminist...
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Got Consent? II: Safewording Abuse
Part I * Part II * Part III * Part IV * Part V Content Note: This post focuses on rape and rape culture, especially in kink communities. Please refer to our glossary for definitions of a number of key...
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Got Consent? III: FetLife Doesn’t Get It
Part I * Part II * Part III * Part IV * Part V Content Note : This series discuses rape and rape culture in kink communities. This is the third post in a series on abuse in BDSM communities. While...
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Got Consent? IV: Safer Play Parties
Part I * Part II * Part III * Part IV * Part V This is the fourth post in a series on abuse in BDSM communities. While topically linked, each post does stand on its own. Please refer to our glossary...
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Pavlov’s Black Gloves
Content note: details of my sex life. If you don’t want to read that, especially if you are, say, related to me– please skip this one. This post is in direct homage to Jaclyn Friedman’s My Sluthood,...
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Got Consent? V: Responsibility
Part I * Part II * Part III * Part IV * Part V Hey, it’s been a while since I last wrote about consent+kink on this blog! I’ve been thinking and talking a lot about it though, and here’s where I’ve...
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Top Five Posts of 2013 on Disrupting Dinner Parties
We’re wishing farewell to 2013 with a look back at our five most-viewed posts of 2013. We’ve had some great ones! Drumroll, please… 5. True love doesn’t wait Rosie notes: “Your sexuality belongs not...
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“The Blacksmith” [NSFW]
This is a poem about kink from my perspective as a queer lady dom. NSFW language below the cut. She is soft and she is hard; The gates to parts of her are barred. I would not have it otherwise For...
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Born Kinky
I’ve been masturbating to the idea of being tied-up for as long as I can remember. It’s literally my earliest memory. I must have started as young as three years old. Time and time again, I would lie...
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A Tale of Two Play Parties
Content warning for trans-antagonism and rape culture. I’ve been doing kink in private for years, but in the past six months I finally broke out into the public kink scene and went to my first two play...
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